Can Anyone Create Me A Soft Snare Layered With A Clap?

Hi.

I tried to make a beat like in this song (Starts 2.04) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luU1cqT-FTg But I havent got the right hit for that... I tried using my drums or so, but then it looks like someones shooting somewhere and the sound is just awful! People examined it and said its a Soft snare layered with a clap or just a snare with heavycompression... Does anyone have this type of hit or can create it to me please? Or how can I do it myself Im really not pro here and cant do it nearly fine on this Pc...

You can also listen to it clearer here : http://www.box.net/shared/jtn5k5grbf

I'd appreciate any help! Im just making a cover with a friend musician and we need help with this type of beat, but we dont have the sound ehh :((

Thank-you very much!